again, to be RFC3986 compliant.

if we advance the pointer, we crash during reload due to an invalid address given to free. altering the string is the way.

what if we receive a SIGHUP right after unblock_signal (or during the whole block_signals...unblock_signals) but *before* the wait_sighup? Yeah.

This adds a check for setproctitle and for the (linux) prctl PR_SET_NAME. If setproctitle is not available, on linux we provide an implementation that use prctl (taken from tmux compat layer.)

it's a waste to loop through all fds. We know the *exact* number of clients that needs attention, so use that information to limit the looping.

now it's symmetrical to listener_main().